|Why are so many teen girls so anxious to have babies?|
Don't they know about the lugging a bowling ball around in their bellies for several months, the excruciating pain of delivery, the day and night feedings, the endless poopy diapers, the non-stop crying and whining, the horrendous doctor bills that insurance doesn't cover? Then they turn into mouthy, self-destructive, belligerent teens themselves, churning out unwanted babies right and left and dumping them on "grandma's" doorstep to feed, clothe and raise.
How do we impart the reality?
|i know i want guys when im older but i also know i want to be much older i take guy development and even the 45 minutes we have with the guys is enough to get sick of them i dont think at this point i could take a guy 24/7|
|Is this a good idea for a baby shower with teen girls AND older women attending?|
My MIL is throwing me a baby shower, well she's acting like she is. Her way of throwing the baby shower is by buying decorations and saying "oh we can decorate with this" but not actually planning anything. So i've taken on the role of coming up with all of the ideas and she's taking my ideas for her own and buying the supplies. Well i am going to have girls from the age of 18 all the way to older women in their 70's. I came up with the idea of buying a bunch of onesies(99 cents) and having a bunch of iron on designs and fabric paint so everyone can design a personalized onesie. Also my mom and MIL will decorate a bib that is dedicated to eachother and i will be making an overnight/diaper bag that both grandma's will use. Do you think this is an ok idea? I don't like the idea of corny games and i'm just wondering if everyone will find this entertaining... in your opinion.
There will be more to the shower but this is the "main event".
|I did this once at a shower and it was fun. Just don't let it drag on too long. Have people start as soon as they walk in - get a drink, start decoarting - so it doesn't take up two hours.|
|Is there a fetish name for liking adult women who dress and act like little girls?|
To be more specific, women who have breasts, are over 18 years old, and ARE adults, but dress in like, bright pink clothes, have pigtails and pink ribbons in their hair, and act and talk like they're very young girls. However, I don't mean the kind of people who wear diapers and stuff, that is gross to me, I mean more like acting like a pre-teen girl.
|Are you suprised at how many middle teen girls are pregnant on here?|
i just started going on here in the last couple weeks. i see tons of "help" i'm pregnant questions on here. I didn't realize people were having sex in the 9th grade. I think we had sex education in my phy-ed class when i was in 11th grade. When i grew up the majority of girls in my class weren't allowed to date before they were at least 15 and some 16. I feel sorry for the mother and the guy. Raising a baby is not easy or cheap. Collecting guy support from a guy who bags groceries twice a week at the local grocery store isn't going to pay for the diapers. come on people. there is plenty of birth control out there for both sexes. go to planned parent hood and get some for free if you can't afford it. get some and use it.
|I agree! And i think it is all a lack of sex education for teens. Teens need to be armed and ready to handle their raging emotions by the time they hit puberty. It sounds sad, but most girls are sexually active by the time they are thirteen. JUST CHILDREN! Having sex! |
I was sixteen when i became accidentally pregnant with my daughter. I had never had the sex talk with my parents, my religion taught abstinence (which does not work, it only makes you want it more!) and i was never taught in school methods of birth control. I think if society could just accept the fact that guyren are going to be having sex, we could help them to be well equipped when they make the decision. Girls need to be able to get birth control easily, boys need to learn to put on a d*** condom and they need to know the risks! I never knew that precum could get me pregnant! but now I know and I have been taught all i need. Just kind of sucks that I didnt know until i grew up two guys later!
I would never trade my guyren for anything. Six years and one divorce later, i have been through a hell of a lot but i now know what I need to teach my daughter. She is going to have sex before she is ready. If i expect it it will be a lot less horrible when i find out! But if i can just teach her how to do it safely her risk of becoming pregnant will be much smaller.
Its a sad statistic. But it is preventable if we just step up and be good parents and good teachers to the ones who are still learning. I know this all too well as i was a good girl, a good student and intelligent. Just not when it came to sex ed. It happens. We need to prevent it.
|Woman and Teen Girls GYNO?|
Ok I'm a 13 year old girl. I'm going to be going to my first GYNO exam in 6 days. I will be having a female nurse. Will I have a brest exam? what will it feel like because I have never had a doctor look at my boobs. Also when I get a Vagina exam what will she do? I have started my period but I have never used a tampon. will it hurt what will it feel like when her fingers go in me. what else will she do inside of me? will if feel funny because I'm naked having a female touch me while im laying not butt naked. Also I have been having trouble with pooping but i don't want to tell her because i don't want a rectal exam. If i tell her and she gives me one what will it feel like? Also have been stealing my little brother diapers and been wearing them to bed because I have been wetting myself should I tell her?
PLEASE all details about what else she will do and about my questions
Ps if i don't have my mom in the room with me will i have another nurse in there?
|Dont worry haha its fine,|
you Probly will have a breast exam it will feel weird Because people dont just do that to you but it wont hurt :) When she does your vaginal exam she wont stick her fingers up you she will use an instument to look inside these are profesional and also wont hurt at all, she will just make sure everythings okay and maybe do a pap smear (which is just a sample of tissue) you wont be naked they wil give you a robe like you have at the normal doctors. if you say you cant poop she might not give you a rectal exam but it depends on the doctor... it wont hurt. You should tell her about bladder problems she can help you with that probly with medication.
if you have ANY OTHER questions feel free to email me i can tell you anything you need to know and for the last question thats up to you but there is no need for another nurse:)
|Woman and Teen Girls Gyno?|
Ok I'm a 13 year old girl. I'm going to be going to my first GYNO exam in 6 days. I will be having a female nurse. Will I have a brest exam? what will it feel like because I have never had a doctor look at my boobs. Also when I get a Vagina exam what will she do? I have started my period but I have never used a tampon. will it hurt what will it feel like when her fingers go in me. what else will she do inside of me? will if feel funny because I'm naked having a female touch me while im laying not butt naked. Also i have been stealing my brothers diapers bc i have been having problems holding my pee. I wear them to school but only when im is sweats tho so that know one will see them. my doctor gave me some pills and they didn't help so i have been doing that. should i tell her about it because i don't want to be there long and i don't want her fingers in me a long time to
PLEASE all details about what else she will do and about my questions
Ps if i don't have my mom in the room with me will i have another nurse in there?
|By law you can asked the doctor for his/her permission to have your mom with you during the exam. Doctor has NO right to refuse that request. If you need your mom with you, which I think is a good idea for moral support, you can do that.|
Also, please talk to your mom BEFORE the exam because she can help you out MORE THAN ANYONE on this world of Internet. Your mother is more helpful to u than the Yahoo answers. Please talk to your mom.
For your question with respect to "i have been having problems holding my pee. I wear them to school but only when im is sweats tho so that know one will see them. my doctor gave me some pills and they didn't help so i have been doing that. should i tell her about it" YES, you should because this could be a medical problem. If you hide something from your doc, it will effect your quality of health.
Doctors have to insert a finger to feel any abnormalities. I think you should talk to your mom about this because she will explain what it means better than I do. ALSO, DO NOT worry about the exam too much because almost every women go through such exams. If you are uncomfortable during the exam, let the doc or nurse know about it. They understand that.
|Teen Girls: Period Question? Please Please Please Help? :) ?|
I'm in 5th grade and i'm 11. I'm on my second period and it is SOOO much heavier then my first. My stupid school has no tampon and pad dispensers (still in elementary) so if I ever forgot a pad I couldn't buy one. I can't even flush tampons or throw out pads since the toilets would not flush them and there are no garbage cans in the bathroom. I don't switch classes so I can't walk into my class room with a bloody pad in my hand. My period is so heavy too!! I had to use the super flow overnight Kotex pads and I'm not allowed to use tampons. I am not close to my mom what-so-ever so I can't ask for her advice.I hate it. i feel like I'm wearing a diaper. And because I have OCD I wear two giant pads and three pairs of underwear and loose black pants and a shirt that covers the back of my pants when I am on my period. My mom has a loud mouth (I don't want my dad and brother to know I have my period since it is embarrassing) so today she screamed down to me from my hallway (it echos) AUTUMN!!! STOP LEAVING THE WRAPPERS TO YOUR PADS ALL OVER YOUR FLOOR!! then whenever my dad is in the room she asks loudly AUTUMN HOWS YA PERIOD? DOES YA BACK HURT?? I want to smack her. I told her to stop but she does not listen. My period is so irregular too. During the day I can bleed very little then feel like I am peeing. Gah. And today I had these HUGE blood clots! they were like a inch long! Please help??
Here are the questions:
Is there a way to make my period lighter?
What are better: Pads or Tampons? Which do you use?
What are the pros and cons of: pads tampons and diva cups
What should I do about my problem In school?
How to make my mom shut up?
Any other advice to make me feel better?
BQ: Have you ever had a embarrassing period story? What is it? :)
|I remember those days well. My daughter startedhaving her period when she was 6. She and I ,had already had the TALK.(thank God) She also had some of the same concerns as you. Her periods were in the beginning,came in many interesting ways. But be proud of yourself you seem to be handling things in a very mature fashion. To answer some of your questions .K-lee and I found that getting her into sports helped alliviate some of her heavy flow. I felt hat she should decide if she wanted to use tampons or pads. She ended up sticking to the light Depends Brand . Which has a type that make it appear as if they were regular panties.Perhaps like K-lee you should wear a fanny pack with small paper bags that can conceal pretty much what you need to dispose of.I believe your mom is having a hard time dealing with her new young woman. I know I embarrassed my daughter with my big mouth.I had so much pride.( I hope she will forgive me one day).Try asking her to remember how she felt when she was in your shoes.Let her know you need an ally to get you through this.|
|How do u make an adult disposable diaper at home?|
my little girl is 16 and she wets the bed every night and even sometimes at school. the principle has asked me as a parent to deal with the situation appropiatley or else she would have to leave the school. please if u do know how to make a thick disposable diaper at home for a teen girl that will absorb her urine so that she can go to school safely each day can you please share it with me? i would be most grateful.
thank you in advance kendra.
|You don't make disposable diapers at home, you can make cloth diapers. and then buy some vinyl panties to put over the diapers.|
|Ladies and Teens Girls!!?|
Ok I'm a 13 year old girl. I'm going to be going to my first GYNO. I will be having a female doctor, when they ask me to put the gown on should i just sit there butt naked with out it because we are both girls? Will i have a brest exam? if so what will she do and what does it feel like. Also when I get a vagina exam will it hurt? I have started my period and have not ever used a tampon. what will it feel like. Should i feel scared because ill be there naked and having a doctor look at me. also at night i wear diapers to bed because i wet my bed. should i tell her? I really don't want her because i don't want her finger in me at all even though i know its going to happen. What other stuff will she do???
Please help by giving all details step by step
Also I don;t want to my mom in the room with me could i ask to have a nurse in the room with me insted?
|Ok, first of all...Take a deep breath. Its ok, its going to be ok. They will ask you to put the gown on with it open to the front. She will do a breast exam, but all it consist of is like pushing on certain points of your breast, nothing major. She will keep yu covered the entire time. This is her ob, and I can guarantee you that she will be professional about it. She will do a vaginal exam, and being as you are so young, its not going to be comfortable. But it shouldnt hurt, just uncomfortable and it really doesnt last long. My best advise I can give you is to try and relax as much as you can. If your tense then its going to make everything feel 10 times worse. If you dont want your mom in there, then tell her. Thats your choice. But when she does the actual vaginal exam there will be another female nurse in there. For 2 reasons. 1 because its the law and there has to be another health care worker, but also she will swab the inside of your vaginal with like a long Q-tip, and the nurse will hand it to herand everything. And also, just to warn you, there is a very good possiblilty that she will also check your anus with a finger. But I would tell her about the diaper thing, maybe there is something she can do for you. Good luck doll...and remember to breath. This is something we ALL do.|
|Ladies and Teens (GIRLS)!!!!?|
Ok I'm a 13 year old girl. I'm going to be going to my first GYNO. I will be having a female doctor, when they ask me to put the gown on should i just sit there butt naked with out it because we are both girls? Will i have a brest exam? if so what will she do and what does it feel like. Also when I get a vagina exam will it hurt? I have started my period and have not ever used a tampon. what will it feel like. Should i feel scared because ill be there naked have a doctor look at me. also at night i wear diapers to bed because i wet my bed. should i tell her? I really don't want her because i don't want her finger in me at all even though i know its going to happen. What other stuff will she do???
Please help im really scared
PS my mom will NOT be in the room
|The links will help you understand the procedure & maybe put your mind at rest.Hope it helps.Good Luck.|
edit:forgot the links.