Men Rimming Men? Why do people like that??? who came up with that idea...I am gay and I know our gay community do that but I personally think that's just way over the top very disgusting I can't see myself doing that to another guy or someone doing it to me... |
. IF you scrub the ButtHole good, it'll be ok for an hour or so.
There's usually a lot of nerve endings there. |
I am getting married to a virgin. fellow gay men please help me? I am 24 and he is 20. We are getting married in 3 weeks and he is a virgin. He was brought up in a Christian home and he considers himself a Christian gay man. We have been together for two years and we decided to tie the knot. We have never practiced any forms of sex. I have had two boyfriends before him but I have never "deflowered" a virgin before. My love tells me he is more than ready to do it with me and I feel the same way with him. How should I make love with him when it is his first time? I have never really seen him naked before. I want to make him feel like he is in heaven. I want to kiss him, stroke him, lick and suck him and even rim him. Should I do something anal when he has never had sex with anyone before? He is so sexy. I just want him in all ways. Am I being too intense right now? What would you do if your groom was a virgin?
And....... Don't misunderstand me. He is a Christian but he is out of the closet and he has got an accepting family who just happen to believe in virginity until marriage......
Please help me?
(I hope to get as many informative answers as possible) |
I would prepare a warm enema to use on him before hand. This does several things, it cleans out the area, it gently stretches out the muscles, and it relaxes them. After he is fully evacuated, wait until he is ready and apply amply amounts of lubricant to both his anal bud, and your fingers. Start with just the tip of your pointer finger, working it in and out slowly. Slowly start to work it deeper. Make sure there is open communication between the two of you, and that he feels comfortable telling you if it hurts. It might be a little uncomfortable, or odd feeling at first, but it should not hurt. Once he is comfortable with you using one finger, rub it against his inner walls. You could even do the fingering while giving him oral, the easiest way would be for him to have his bum on the edge of the bed, and for you to be on your knees beside it. After a while of rubbing against his inner walls, you can start to gently work in a second finger. Repeat the same process with two fingers, and once he can easily take two fingers, you can work on anal sex.
I suggest wearing a condom with added lubricant. Before sliding in at all, lube up your fingers and rub the lube against the inside of his bum. Then you can start pressing the head of your penis in. Slowly and carefully. Slide just the head in and out a few times, then press in a little further and pull back, a little further, and then pull back. Soon enough, you'll be able to slide fully inside him. Then you can start gently having sex. After a bit, you could be rougher if you want, but start out gently.
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Ed,
When he says "I want to make him feel like he is in heaven."
He means he wants his fiance to feel really good and pleasured during his first sexual experience. |
To all the gay men... Which would you prefer? To be rimmed or a bj? |
Rimmed. I am a bottom. So that is what I would prefer. Rather than the BJ. I think that I would do my partner. And he could toss my salad or someting like that. I prefer a partner whom is a top. Not bi.
-C |
A question for all experienced gay men!? i feel so embarrased asking this question, but i need help. lol
I recently had my first time with a guy i had been talking with. My active role was the receptive position, but i don't understand something.
He had the interest to rim, which I thought was horrible but turned out to be rather pleasurable,so I had properly cleaned myself before I met him. well, not long after he had been inside of me, I began to leak (in lack of a better term).
I felt so embarrassed, but confused because I didn't know what i did wrong. can anyone tell me what I have to do about an hour or two before sex, to keep myself clean for him? I feel so bad asking but I just want things to run smoothly. Please answer with maturity...I feel bad enough as it is!
Thanks again! |
You said you had properly cleaned yourself. Did that include an enema or a douche?
I bet that's what you didn't do. Also, be sure and eat right and get plenty of hydration but not right before sex. If you're constipated, the stimulation can cause your intestines to move anything that's in there to move forward, almost like a plunger in a stopped drain. I guess that's graphic enough, sorry if that's too much.
Good luck in the future and have fun! |
Gay STD s men only? i know you can get stds from rimming but if you get rimed can you catch it from your sex partners saliva or can you catch it from both ends |
| First of all No... Now you can only transmit a disease if the person Carry's it... Second... The disease cam only be giving through blood touching your blood which would have to be an open cut... So my answer to your question about rimming is no... Ok you can't just get an std from that... RIM All you want... If you start to see discoloration or something that's when you need to worry |
Does this make my boyfriend gay or do some men like it to? My boyfriend and i we were in bed and we were talking about our fantasies and such...and he said he wanted me to f**k him in the a$$ with a strap on...
He is really serious about it, and asked me if it turned me off. It didnt turn me off. But i told him i would do it for him, to make him happy.
i am a straight 21 yr old and He is a totally straight 30 yr old and not bisexual or anything like that. But does that make him gay or wat? Ive heard that, that is where the mens "g-spot" is. and maybe thats what makes it feel good for them..and ive also read that alot of straight men enjoy that..or getting a finger shoved in...
sorry for my language..
i just need to know.
any help would be greatly appreciated. I just want to know if its normal amongst guys..
because my exboyfriend..once asked me to do a rim job..but i said no.
So just wondering.
please dont disrespect me or my boyfriend. it is just a simple question. thanks!=) |
It's the sex of a partner and attraction that determines sexuality, and not the actual activities that someone likes.
There are millions of straight guys who have similar interests, and people are more intelligent about what it is to be gay, bi and straight nowadays, so people have opened their minds quite a bit. I'm sure many guys a hundred years ago didn't open up so much about this, but that was in times when sex was more of a taboo subject.
All male bodies have the same nerves, muscles etc, so it's possible for all guys to have stimulation, and the g-spot for guys is located there, as you correctly state. Some guys are interested in being somewhat submissive, and having this type of activity can also help satisfy these needs. A submissive guy is no more gay, or even effeminate, than a dominant guy, it's more something in the mind.
Feel glad that your partner trusts you to share this, as this also means that he's likely to be interested in helping you feel more fulfilled, and feels close to you. Enjoy what you both like.
Hope this helps. Good luck! Rob |
Men and Women gay or straight have you or do perform the...? sexual act of "rimming" on your partner or have you had it done to you? I'm asking because I've had it done to me and when I mention it to my friends they act like its taboo but I have noticed that it has become really popular in porn. Does liking to be "rimmed" make me a freak or is it something most people have tried? |
| to be honest I hate it xDD but alot of people like it i find it "eww" :] |
How much gay stuff can I do before I apologize and get into heaven? Like is there anything that's just too gay and God will be like "Nah man, that mess was way too gay" Like say I give a rim job is that just automatic hell right there? Or what if I suck on Jadens toes is that too gay? So let's say I do 1000 gay things with Jaden then I say sorry to God and I never do them again will I go to heaven? |
| This made me laugh more than a couple of times, so congrats on that. lol...who the hell is Jaden? Too funny, man. |
Ladies; Does the man in your life use you to act out his inner "Gay" wanting you to rim him? Ladies does your man ask you to "go down on him" and rim his anus when having sex? Do you think he is using you to fantasize about his "inner" Gay side? |
| No. |
Parents: Do You Want Your Guyren Learning This? I went to the Planned Parenthood website and they had instructions for an icebreaker game intended for middle school an high school students. One of the things is to go and find someone who knows what "rimming" is. Rimming is when a gay man licks the anus of another gay man.
I personally wouldn't want my guy learning that in school! What do you think? |
| No! Absolutely not! Although it may be something you would discuss in a private conversation with your own guy, it's definitely not something that should be used in an icebreaker game where other people's guyren are involved (and you are the responsible adult leading the event!). This could certainly lead to some backlash from other parents. Just as you wouldn't use "BJs" or "69", etc in a game such as this, "rimming' is definitely not an appropriate game topic! I would send an email to the website administrators mentioning my concerns as well! |