Is My Enema Fetish Normal? Me and my boyfriend like to have kinky sex from time to time and my thing that I like is to have him give me an enema and dominate me while I hold it.I like it when he dresses up like a doctor and wears the exam gloves. Is this normal? Do other people have enema fetishes? What kind of effects will this have on my body? |
You are normal, its everyone else that is messed up. I discovered the pleasures of enemas many years ago but it was only after I discovered the internet that I realized that I was really normal.. If done properly there should be no ill effects. Carefully research any solutions you may experimenting with as some can be dangerous.
If you haven't already discovered this, check out : www.enemas4fun.com/ |
Weired fetish pregnant and enema? I am 20year old girl and just found out some odd things about my self the last 4 months. I just moved away from home 5 months ago for a job. I was in a town where I didn't know anyone and closes any my family and friends where about 7 hours away. Lucky I meet a boy from one of the girls I worked with. He is now my boyfriend of 3 months. We did not rush into have sex right away, mostly because I was a safe girl and only had sex with one other guy before him. We hit off right away go out to dinner just about every night of the week and partying hard on the weekends. Which all of this was new for me, I rarely drink a lot, but lately I have been drinking lots of beer. I had noticed that I started to put on some weight from all the drinking and eating out. I was getting very comfy in the relation ship and it didn't seam to bother my boyfriend about the weight also. I usually cared a lot about my weight and tried to stay in shape. But to the point now, about 4 weeks ago I started to get sick to my stomach a lot and really getting more bloated and boobs enlarged a lot and tender. I was close to starting my period and was hope it was that and not pregnant. My period came and went, and it was mostly a normal period but I still felt sick all the time and really boated and so on. I got on the scale for the first time I moved and I weighed 129lbs. I had gained about 19lbs since I had moved. I look at my self naked in the mirror and I could consider that I look pregnant. Most of all the weight I gained was all in belly, I could tell I had gained some in my thighs and butt also. I felt my stomach as I could feel some soft fat on top but it seam real firm and bloated under the fat. I figured I was pregnant just thinking that my belly wasn't all fat like it would be from all eating out and beer. I was sick all the time my boobs where huge I thought I was pregnant. As I stood there thinking about being pregnant looking at my belly it stated to turn me on a little. I went to the doctor to find out if I am pregnant. I ended up not be pregnant but I had bad constipation. The doctor recommend a enema to help with bloatedness and told me that my nausea will go away when I not blocked up with toxins in my body. He ask if I would wanted to do it at home with someone I know or at the doctors office with one of his female nurse. I didn't have anyone beside my boyfriend and figure that would be hard to ask of him after only knowing him for 4 months. So I told him I would do there. Later his nurse came in to perform it. The nurse end up being 4 months pregnant and very hot. I had never been attracted to girls before let alone pregnant girls. To make the long story short I end up loving the enema and pregnant women also found out the same for my boyfriend. So any other girls like ether pregnant or enemas? I'm I weird? |
I think you found out you like anal stimulation and it just so happened to be a hot pregnant nurse who helped you discover it.
Now if you start ONLY getting aroused by enemas, or ONLY buy pregnant women, or ONLY by nurses, I'd say you had a sexual fetish.
As it is, I'd say your a young, rather sexually inexperienced woman who is fast on the trail of discovering what she does and doesn't like =D
If the thought of gay sex turns your crank, you'd best explore it before you make any type of monogamous commitment to anyone. You may be bisexual or gay. Sometimes it takes years to figure out who and what we really are...
Have fun along the way ~ la la la la Lola |
So i want to perform a self-enema...? I want to know the risks and benefits. I know it can clear up constipation (which i have chronically) and stuff like that, but it sounds like it might be risky. I want to know what.. uh, household objects can be used... and stuff. and if there is any abdominal distension normally (like it's shown in the enema-fetish-hentai-drawings). also, what about filling up the uterus with water, if the cervix is dilated? what would happen then?
if you must know, I think i have a fetish for this... this abdominal expansion, and being filled up with liquid. and yes, I'm from 4chan, where i came across (literally) a thread on enemas on /d/, where i got some information, but not really enough. i want answers from people with medical experience or who have had enemas themselves. |
From Wikipedia:
"Precautions
Improper administration of an enema may cause electrolyte imbalance (with repeated enemas) or ruptures to the bowel or rectal tissues resulting in internal bleeding. However, these occurrences are rare in healthy, sober adults. Internal bleeding or rupture may leave the individual exposed to infections from intestinal bacteria. Blood resulting from tears in the colon may not always be visible, but can be distinguished if the feces are unusually dark or have a red hue. If intestinal rupture is suspected, medical assistance should be obtained immediately.[16]
The enema tube and solution may stimulate the vagus nerve, which triggers an arrhythmia such as bradycardia. Enemas should not be used if there is an undiagnosed abdominal pain since the peristalsis of the bowel can cause an inflamed appendix to rupture.
Colonic irrigation should not be used in people with diverticulitis, ulcerative colitis, Crohn's disease, severe or internal hemorrhoids or tumors in the rectum or colon. It also should not be used soon after bowel surgery (unless directed by one's health care provider). Regular treatments should be avoided by people with heart disease or renal failure. Colonics are inappropriate for people with bowel, rectal or anal pathologies where the pathology contributes to the risk of bowel perforation.[17]
Recent research has shown that ozone water, which is sometimes used in enemas, can immediately cause microscopic colitis.[18]"
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enema#Preca… |
How can I safely get over Eproctophilia (farting fetish)? I've been a sufferer for as long as I can remember. I can't stop from getting sexually turned on whenever someone leaves a long, loud fart in my presence. It's starting to become a real problem for me as I am required to give a lot of enemas in my line of work, and as we all know, enemas provide gas before the ride. Please help! |
| You say that as if it was wrong to have Eproctophilia. Now if you had Klismophelia, that could be a problem if others knew it. At least as a female you are not likely to show outward signs of your arousal. |
Help my boyfriend fetish is a little bit different? I love my boyfriend very much we've been together 5 years and i couldn't be happier with him but i knew he had certain fetishes most of which match mine only he has a medical fetish and i do not and he really wants to give me an enema but im not totally sure.
ive looked into it and looked at all the equipment but i don't understand the appeal of it. Im willing to try but im just trying to comprehend it. help me understand it ive talked to him about it but he gets embarrassed easily so closes off straight away. just some advice guidance and understanding for a newbie i guess |
Fetishes are fetishes. Everyone has them, some are kinkier than others. I'd say if you're comfortable with it, truly care for your boyfriend, then go for it. Clearly you guys trust each another enough.
This is not the weirdest or strangest fetish I've heard about. Understanding some is easier than others. I guess the appeal to this one is because it's naughty. This is probably something he knows would only between the 2 of you and never be forgotten or replaced. He might enjoy it, he might not. Same goes for you.
You said you've tried talking it over with him but he gets embarrassed and stops talking. Just approach him with the understanding that you need and want to talk it over with him before you do it. Also, inform him you're not trying to embarrass him and you're really considering doing it for him. This might help him open a little more. But this might be one of those things you just have to do for him out of love, and then you'll find out why he wanted it so badly.
Hope that helped |
Bidet and enemas.? I have a two part question:
1. Have you ever used a bidet, and if so what was your experience? Does the bidet just kind of wash the offending fecal matter away? Do you still have to wipe?
2. Have you ever had an enema (medical or otherwise)? If so, what was your experience? Uncomfortable? Cleansing? Satisfying? (I'm interested in the sexual answers to this one too, since the enema fetish is an interesting one).
Nothing says Christmas like a question of bidets and enemas, say I. :) |
| Pertaining to your second question, yes, I have had an enema before. I find them quite pleasurable and very erotic. I like knowing I'm very clean inside and out before being intimate with a partner. The pressure on the nerves in my abdomen created when my bowel is full of water is very nice indeed. |
My ex had a gross fetish what do you think is he gay, how do I stop him from bad mouthing me.? My ex used to stay up at night and for hours he would give himself anal and give himself enemas I didnt know untill I busted him he took great pleasure in doing it when you were close by but didnt know what he was doing he did it all the time for hours and hours. I stayed for three years after I busted him because I thought it was my fault and I could fix it I know stupid right. I also stayed because of domestic violence he isolated me I had no phone, car, family I had three guys with him and couldnt leave the house unless he or his family took me out. I busted him doing this in the same room as my daughter when she was asleep I took him to court over suspected guy abuse because of this but noone belived me and I had no evidence just my word. To other people he seems like a wonderfull guy but behind closed doors he isnt. He now has a new girlfriend she is 23 and they have been seeing each other for 9 months their baby is due in 2 months. I dont love him or any of that crap I dont even hate him now the court said he has to have visitation every 2nd weekend and half the school holidays. Every time the guys are there he bad mouths me to them really bad, I never talk wbout him I have learned not to say anthing about him to the guys they will work him out for themselves as they get older.
He will never forgive me for outing his secret to the court or my family but I have never and never will tell his girlfriend or anyone else in his life because I dont care about his life I do care about my guys and what he says to them even though they asked him to stop bad mouthing me |
| He obviously has problems far beyond bad mouthing you. You can't stop him from bad mouthing you and believe me your guyren will grown up and he will have to deal with the negativity he has caused |
My boyfriends werid family HELPPPP? hi i have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years now and we are having a baby together. seeing how im pregnant i sometimes get constipated and he's always joking around saying oh my grandmother will give you an enema! he just said that she would always talk about them, he claimed he never has had one. i went to his grandmas house and she liked to give enemas she said it was her fetish and she's given all her grandguyern enemas. after we left he was like "did my grandmother tell you she gave all the grandguyern enemas? i was like yeah then he's like but not me! she told me she did and he claims he's never had one he gets all defensive when we talk about it. do you think he did? and how can i get him to tell the truth? also recently i found out that when he was little he would go to his aunts, she would MAKE them get there ears cleaned out eith a bobbypin! i found it werid and he was liek oh yeah sometimes she's make our ears bleed she has a fetish!is this normal and why would |
| Whoa..that is some strange stuff, specially the enema part..Grandmas fetish huh? Sounds like maybe she was getting some sexual satisfaction from doing that to her grandguyren. Your boyfriend might be ashamed that his grandmother did that to him, (and thats why he lies) which means he felt invaded and that is wrong. I'd not let my guy be there with any of them unsupervised...thats FOR SURE!!! |
My wife regularly (once/week) had anal sex with her ex boyfriend but will never allow me to; what should I do? My wife's ex boyfriend had a fetish for anal sex so she allowed him to engage in this with her once a week...They had what they called "Enema and anal Sunday's" which went on for over 2 years.
I too, have an anal fetish, however, she will never allow me to engage in this with her. She says she did this with him 3 years ago and was young and dumb then and that she hates anal sex because it hurts.
Now I'm left feeling slighted and jealous that she would perform this for him but will not allow me any anal play whatsoever! I've been very honest with her about my feelings and it has created a variety of terrible arguments ending with me apologizing for making such a big deal of it and her yelling at me saying she will, "never give me anal sex!"
The bottom line is this is a big deal for me- it's something I can't seem to get out of my head; she gave him anal sex once a week but never will for me!? Because I can't get this out of my head I continue to spark arguments about it....Any advice for me on what I should do or how I can get her to do this for me would be greatly appreciated!!
PS- It It also doesn't help the situation that she still talks to this guy on occasion and brings up her past with him fairly regularly... |
| my boyfriend loves anal sex but me personally i dont like it becoz it does hurt.... do you have a big ding-a-ling bcoz if you do that might be why her ex might of only bin small, i let my ex do it coz i bearly felt it then when i let my boyfriend now do it i thoght it wont hurt and it bloody did im telling ya so now i let him do it ever now and then when i am so drunk i wont feel a thing lol... what helps us is plently of lube or baby oil, and if she does let ya dont proper bang her just be gentle becoz it really hurts ok good luck xxx |
I found something quite unusal in my parents closet? My parents have a lot of things in their closets. "Dirty" things.
Which is completely understandable and normal. Boy, when I first saw the things, wow I was freaked out, and I still am a bit freaked out :/
Well anyways, I found an enema bag with it's nozzle in it, in my parents closet.
I have no idea what it's doing their.
What possible purpose could it have?
Does my dad have a freakky fetish maybe? Or is it just...a medical apparatus for his inner workings?
What do you think? |
| Could be either. If your parents come to you and ask why you're posting questions in a gay forum, don't you dare cop an attitude and tell them to give you privacy - got it? If you want them to respect your privacy, respect theirs. |